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Big Girls Paradise Dating offers our parties as a secure environment to meet potential new partners. It is also a place to make and meet new friends. Please use sound judgement when arranging to meet anyone and always let someone else know where, when and who you are meeting.
1) Watch out for someone who seems too good to be true. Begin by communicating solely via Big Girls Paradise Dating email. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.
2) All correspondence between BGP Dating members email is confidential ensuring your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. When corresponding with another BGP Dating member. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it.
3). If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly. Be responsible about romance, and dont fall in love at the click of a mouse. Dont become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. If you mutually decide to cross the point of no return, be smart and protect yourself.
4) Always ask for a photograph. If all you hear are excuses about why you cant see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide and act accordingly.
5) Chat on the phone first and always withhold your landline number or use a mobile.
6) Dont agree to meet with anyone until you feel you are ready to do so.
7) Always agree to meet in a safe place (A Big Girls Paradise party is a good and safe environment to start with) Otherwise meet in a public place where you feel comfortable.
8) Never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, use your best judgment get out of the situation immediately. Excuse yourself long enough to leave safely. If you feel you are in danger, call the police or inform the management of the venue you are in. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your behaviour; your safety is much more important than one persons opinion of you.
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